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Male Rape & Childhood Sexual Abuse

Male rape happens, not as much as female rape, but it happens. Men and boys often struggle with disclosing such crimes against them.

Trigger Warning:

Content on this page contains graphic themes of sexual violence in images, text and videos which may cause distress to you.

Individual differences…are boys more resilient?

A therapist’s perspective

Many men who had traumatic sexual experiences as boys struggle with disrupted relationships and careers. As well as physical and mental health issues including depression, substance abuse, and self-destructive or violent behaviours. These men often seek (or are referred into) treatment for a range of health and behavioural issues without disclosing – or even recognising – the role that their negative childhood experiences play in their current problems.

Earlier identification of this common underlying source of suffering, paired with more effective interventions, can prevent many negative emotional, social and physical outcomes. This early identification increases the better outcomes for boys and men.

General socialised expectations about manhood influence professional care pathways, therapists and other professionals. They sometimes do not recognise the connections between traumatic boyhood experiences and adult problems. Or adequately consider them during assessment or treatment.

Improving awareness of the many potential impacts of traumatic childhood sexual experiences on men’s mental and physical health is therefore essential. Essential to improving life chances for men and boys and their journey from boyhood into manhood.



If you are a male victim of rape or sexual assault, we can help.


Any questions?

Try our myths about rape page for more information, or click here if you are interested in seeking treatment & would like to know more on this.

If you are looking for support or guidance on what to do next, consider speaking to our Independent Sexual Violence Advisor & Crisis and Advocacy Service for more help.

Are you thinking about starting therapy? Please see our  rape & sexual abuse trauma counselling service webpage to look at how this process may help you.

If you are a male aged 18 years or under, please click here to find information that may be more suited to you.

You can always contact us for more direct information on a personal level.

If you have been raped or sexually abused, whether as an adult or a young person, it is important to remember that it wasn’t your fault.

Rape and childhood sexual abuse are crimes, no matter who committed it, when it happened or where it happened.

Don’t be afraid to get help. 

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